Advice for caregivers
There are usually signs which suggest your elderly relative or loved one needs support. At Cliffdale we recognise it is not always easy to think about a parent or partner moving into care, but sometimes it is the best option.
Signs to look out for include:
- Changes in behaviour such as paranoia, forgetfulness or confusion
- Poor self-hygiene, unwashed clothes, unkempt surroundings
- Being unable to manage every day requirements such as paying bills, keeping things tidy or safe
- Not eating properly or low activity levels
Although these signs on their own don’t mean you should necessarily place someone into care, they do suggest you should at least discuss the option. It is better to take action rather than ignore the problem.
Putting someone into care
Talking with a loved one or partner about the option of moving into care should be approached in a unforced way. Take time to consider what support is available in your community, and the level of need which has to be met. Sometimes it helps to have a trained medical professional assist. The main consideration is the well-being of the person who requires care and support.
Very often old people may feel they are a burden on their children or family members. Family members may feel that they are forcing their loved ones out. Feelings of guilt or abandoning someone are normal, but placing someone into a care home where they can be well looked after and surrounded by others in a similar position can be the best thing.
There is also the question of how to pay for care and this can sometimes be a tricky question to answer. Care costs can be significant so take time to learn about the costs and how this will affect your financial situation.
How we can help
If you are thinking of placing a loved one into care we are here to support you. At Cliffdale we can discuss any concerns you have and point you in the right direction. Our team is trained to help make your decision as easy as possible. Just call us 01743 790261 on email us for advice.